I be aware for this usually. Often whenever an individual is cheated on, they have been drawn to cheating, in an effort to reclaim their lost self-esteem, even in the event their spouse that is new is.
It will always be a misguided option to regain self-esteem, but, still, We hear for this taking place often.
Personally, I believe you need to at the least keep consitently the lines of communication available along with your spouse, and tell him it takes to regain 90 percent of his trust again that you are willing to do whatever.